Wednesday, January 28, 2015

What is the one simple thing that makes life easier?

Yesterday I was asked this question....with all the research you've done on persuasion, what is the one simple thing that that any person could do to become more persuasive?   Great question!  I asked for a little time to mull that over in skull.

The answer came to me and I realized that this one thing not only makes you more persuasive but it also makes like easier and ton more fun.

So let the banners fly and the bells ring out, here is my brilliant reply...

Smile more often!

Smiles and laughter break down our defenses.   We get energized around happy people.  And we always have time for those who can put a smile on our face.   

Even seeing cartoon happy faces like the one above can lift a persons mood.   So the lesson is..

"Give yourself permission to laugh and smile more often and others will want to be around you plus it's really good for business"

So dump that serious look because it's bad for business and your relationships.   Too much seriousness sucks the energy out of people.  Lighten up!

Want to be more persuasive and  enjoy life....smile more often!


It's just that easy...


OOPS....forgot to mention, it's got to be a genuine smile.   We know a fake or false smile when we see it.  So if the person you are about to flash your pearly whites isn't the kind of person who you could give a genuine smile to, think of someone you really like and then smile with them in mind.  





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